Thursday, November 18, 2010

No, Facebook is not the problem here

A very sad story in the Mail (yes I know, a dangerous game taking things out of the Mail, but it seems to be in quite a few other places with pretty much the same content) about a 13-yr-old boy receiving death threats from fellow pupils for posting a facebook tribute to fallen soldiers on Remembrance Day. The offenders have now been suspended and are threatened with expulsion (what exactly do you have to do in order to be immediately expelled, by the way?)

I won't dwell on the horror of what these kids wrote, it's pretty appalling and I would hope the Police do prosecute them. However, the principal of the school made an incredible statement utterly missing the point of what is happening. Here it is:
Sidney Stringer Academy’s principal, Wendy Thomas, said Facebook was an increasing concern for schools. She said the children have been told to remove the comments from the site.
She said: ‘Darius is the victim of bullying. All the students involved have told me they did not mean what they said but they will learn a hard lesson from this.
‘Facebook is a big concern for schools and we urge all parents to monitor what their children say on the site. As soon as the school was notified about the comments on Monday we interviewed the pupils.
Facebook was an increasing concern for schools? Qué? What about 6 illiterate, hate-filled children threatening another child with knives? That would be my primary concern.

Facebook did not threaten this child. I remember at school a massive older kid organising a fight with the smallest kid in my year. We didn't have mobiles, but the small kid was bricking it by the time the fight came around that afternoon, he'd got the message about what was going to happen to him loud and clear (he actually acquitted himself pretty well in the end but that's by the by).

Facebook does make it a little easier to send the message, as do mobiles, but bullying was just as pernicious and nasty 20 years ago as it is now. The difference is that no-one takes responsibility for it, neither parents nor teachers. Wendy Thomas has found an out, a way to escape facing the appalling behaviour going on at her school, and she's jumped on it. You could not send a worse message.

3 comments:

  1. what exactly do you have to do in order to be immediately expelled, by the way?

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    All the students involved have told me they did not mean what they said but they will learn a hard lesson from this.


    Although issuing death threats against a student may not seem very serious to a school, creating a facebook group criticising the school is serious, and does lead to permanent exclusion (it wasn't me, by the way, so you can relax!).

    Fuck the mistreatment of kids—something state schools do every day—only the school's dignity matters.

    Criticism of a school is unacceptable. However, do you fancy making death threats against a fellow pupil? No fucking problem! I see enormous double standards here...

    And that principal? Yes, she is a complete weapons grade cunt of the first water. The utter shitstick wouldn't attempt to ban speech if the death threats were made in person, would she? So why treat facebook any differently?

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  3. Angry Teen, spot on as usual, couldn't agree more, rampant hypocrisy and the principal should be ashamed of herself, although I suspect shame isn't something she is capable of.

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